Good post Ltc-


As for head rubbing -does depend upon the level of his own head rubbing, laying it on you, over your shoulder. If you do think of it in horse terms, the Alpha horse doesn't generally let horses do this to an extremity. He/she may have a favorite or two in the herd who does not have to "respect" him or her as much as the others, but if you are Alpha- just think about the situation if he was with other horses. If he's head rubbing- not as big of an emergency as if he were biting or kicking- BUT if he is having a problem with respect, may want to just watch him, make sure he doesn't do it alot. Yes it is sometimes a sign of loving, relaxation in a horse to do this- but it's also relaxation in the fact that he doesn't think you're going to put him in his place for it.

I do sometimes let my horses do this, but if I have one who's got a real problem with respecting me and my space, I like to let them know in every situation (until it's not a problem for them anymore and we can get back to norm) that I am still boss, and I should still be respected. In that sense, a horse that gives another horse space, is respecting that horse.

So- not telling you how to call your shots- just giving you some horsey thoughts .

SO SO glad to hear your progress!!!!! Keep it up girl and definitely post us a vid .