May I throw in a word of caution about the you "MUST catch her". That seems to be the problem. And that is why I made my suggestions. I agree - but if it does not work it might get worse.

I can out a horse in a pen and catch it - but you darn sure need to know what you are doing.

I very much agree about the leading (onece the catch problem is solved). I am a "leading freak". My deal is, if the horse does not lead, don't try to ride.

Take your pick and good luck!

GC