I normaly get her out and after I've groomed and tacked up I play games on the ground. Then I get on make sure she doesn't walk off and the we do some walk halt trans, walk trot, then trot halt canter trot really what ever comes to mind. I try to vary her work out alot unless shes unsure or worried, then I stick to the same thing. After that we do jumping and or serpentines or figure 8s. The whole time I'm working I ask her more like test her to see if shes ready or if shes still unsure. I try to keep in mind that she is a pray animal and I am a predator so its unnatrual for her to except me in her yard. Thats generaly why alot of people can't ; catch there horses, tie there horses, ( the horse is a clostriphobic (sp) animal) trailer there horses, get on there horses, exc.