Thank you all SO very much!!! I have copied all of the replies to keep filed away.

I actually know of a couple of barns nearby with trainers (that have a good reputation) I plan on finding someone to help me with this, and accompany me to view any available horses. My hope is to find a horse "through someone" rather than going blindly from an ad. I plan on being honest that this is my first horse. I am tall (5'10", and my hubby is even taller.. 6'1"), so I really want a horse at least 16+ hands. We would prefer a gelding, and would like between 7-12 years of age. I want a solid horse who is gentle.

Our budget will be $4000, so I hope to be able to take my time and find *just* the right horse for us.

Thank you, again, SO much!

I have always known a lot about the QH b/c i've been riding mainly them for about 11 years. and from what i read, you know quite a bit as well?? When i got my first horse, i wanted a challenge, so i went to this lady who had never fed them in her life (the horses were living off grass) and she didn't even know the difference b/t sweet feed and pellets....yikes!!

But anyways, i would go with the breed that you feel the most comfortable with, and QH are very versitile!! Just spend some time with the horse before purchase, maybe lease it out for a week before?? and just get to see how it's trained, and how he/she moves while riding, and that way you will get a good idea of what the everyday will be like.

Good Luck!! and HAVE FUN!!!!!

What a good idea to look into leasing before I buy! (sounds like I am referring to a car!) I really want to be *sure* that I make the right choice. I think that would be tough to do with only a few meetings and a few short rides. This is not a small purchase by any means. I want us to be a good "match".

Thanks for the suggestion!!!

Its different with each and every person. For me, I know if a horse is a good match by the first or second ride. But, good advice, take your time!!!