to circlekinstuctor:
none taken! i am sorry if i came across a little performance/physically concentrated in the first post. just so you know, temperment and dependibility come before anything (except the fact that the horse is safe to ride) and i was hoping for a bigger horse because my stepfather is
really tall, more than a foot taller than me, and it would be nice for him to ride the horse without his feet dragging! also, my instructor (who, by the way, trains endurance horses and was the first one to tell me about it) reccomends a horse around 15.3, which is a size where i don't look too big or too small on the horse. Sadly, she has no horses currently for sale, she had downsized he personal heard a few months ago, otherwise i would be looking at her horse
as for gaiting, i like riding gaited horses, and would be alot more comfertible for me, though it would just be an added plus, like someone who has found their idle horse, which also happens to be their favorite color. the gaited factor is not going to make or break deals, just like no one (or at least 'most') would buy a horse just because they are the beautiful golden palomino color of their dreams. also, i am looking into arabians the most, and i know they tend to be on the small side, but there are some ones out there that are at least 15 hands, and the crosses are sometimes bigger. no worries, i am not turning my back on any horse breeds.
thanks for commenting! you really helped me fully realize what is most important for me in the horse i am looking for.
p.s. i forgot to mention i am not planning to go out and buy a horse tomorrow or anything. my best bet is , at the earliest, 3 months, most likely more.